Shashi Rupeja is not completely sure but she does think she first caught her husband’s eye while she was embroidering. “He must have seen me threading phulkari and thought I was hardworking,” Shashi says laughing at the happy memory, a half-finished phulkari piece in her hands.
It is a winter’s day in Punjab and Shashi is sitting with her friend Bimla in her neighbourhood, enjoying the mild winter sun. Their hands are busy as they chit-chat, discussing their everyday lives. But their attention never wavers from the sharp needles they hold with coloured threads that are making phulkari patterns on the cloth.
“There was a time when women in every household here would embroider phulkari pieces,” says the 56-year-old resident of Patiala city, as she adds another careful stitch to the flower she had been embroidering on a red dupatta.
Phulkari is an embroidery style with floral patterns and is commonly used on garments like dupatta, salwar kameez and saree. The design is first traced on the garment with ink using carved wooden blocks. Artisans then embroider in and around the markings with colourful silk and cotton threads sourced locally from Patiala city.










